How many times have you stood in front of the mirror after changing three times?
And yet nothing you put on looks good... it makes you want to pull your hair out in frustration!! And yet the problem isn't the clothes in your closet at all. It is how you feel about yourself at that time. Its not like a bad hair day. Sometimes a cowlick just shows up, we slept on our hair the wrong way... but a fat day is different!
How do we fix this???
Don't we all wish we could do it in the snap of our fingers? A easy Abra Kadabra! Whoosh its gone and we feel sexy and fabulous!
Its not as easy as all that, but I think we can make a little bit of a difference in our days with a couple of changes to that horrible routine!
The number one rule of thumb to remember is that feeling sexy is a state of mind. It has nothing to do with your dress size what time of month it is or anything like that.
Also looking sexy has nothing to do with your age. Its all about your attitude. Having the right attitude
goes along way. Matter of fact, I think it is one of the most misused,
or under-rated statements made. The way people see you is different from
the way you see yourself. People have no idea how old you are unless
YOU tell them.
So get over it!! Start acting like
how you want to feel and it will be your reality!
Be strong and confident. The only person who can tear you down is you! So instead build yourself up. Quit looking for others to draw self-assurance and self-approval
from. People, especially women have way too many jealousy issues to
mulled around with. So stopping dressing for them, and start dressing
sexy for yourself.
It is all about what how you feel inside!
Treat yourself kindly and you will feel amazing!!